Do Appreciate each other

  • Farjana Akter
  • June 16, 2020

In any healthy relationship there are three A's which is Acceptance, Appreciation and Acknowledgement. A common problem to many couple is lack of appreciation and it happens more to those couple who have been together for a while. We human beings are always carving for positive attention from our near and dear one. Often we don't notice how we slipped into the habit of taking care each other as well as appreciating each other.

Stopping taking care and appreciating each other, the problem arguments, frustration, and resentment start.

Here is a little example - your partner always cooking for yourself. Your never be thankful for this. You take it as her normal duty. One day she stops cooking yourself. Do you think what will happen? Can you manage all things? Don't say that you will go restaurant and bring your food. Be practical. Restaurant's food will not be healthy and you can't eat three times in a day in restaurants.

Be always thankful to your partner for his/her little to large activities. People don't take seriously this note. They think giving thanks to partner for their activities is ridiculous thing, but in reality this appreciation is more powerful to any relationship. We always think what we do in bigger one, and what others do is smaller one! From this thinking the problem is starting. We should think what we do is bigger and important, what our partner do maybe it is smaller but we should

This Act is something bigger and more important. If we can think this way our relationship will be at a balance.

Appreciating someone makes them feel special about what they do, and it also makes a difference to their lives. Keep appreciating and build a healthy relationship.

The power of questions in a relationship at right time is more!

'Communication will bring understanding and understanding will cause harmonious mutual relationships which can establish peace and stability.'

– Lobsang Tenzin

Suppose your partner come back home from the office. May be you also come back from office. Your partner's need a cup of tea, but he can't ask for it. After getting fresh suddenly you ask to your partner, 'would you like to have a cup of tea?' just ask this question and look at your partner's eye! You will see love, surprise and more to your partner eye. Sometimes we all feel broken without any reason.

That time if someone comes to us and ask about...That time if someone comes to us and ask about our mood off. We feel very special. If you can read your partner's face, activity, it will be very easy to ask questions at the right time. To ask questions at the right time is very helpful too All relationship. Try to read your near and dear person's face.

 

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